Why are we discontent? How can we be content despite our circumstances as Paul mentions in Philippians 4? Watch this helpful video from The Gospel Coalition as Nancy Guthrie, Jen Wilkin from The Village Church, and author Melissa Kruger discuss this topic of contentment.
Today’s post was written by Elisa Coker.
When I think about The Church at Brook Hills, I think about home. Home is a place where you always feel loved and welcomed. Home is a place where growing and learning takes place under the care and guidance of loved ones. Home is where you make mistakes and learn from them, and unrestricted love and teaching is extended without judgment. Home is a place where family gathers to fellowship and encourage one another. Sometimes, home is a place where family consoles one another and carries one another’s burdens. Home is the place where you learn to love and say I’m sorry. Home is always the place that family serves one another in some form or fashion.
Yes, a friend continually shared the gospel with me, but it was my first initial step into The Church at Brook Hills in 2007 that would begin the life and ultimate heart transformation for me. I did not believe I was a good enough person to sit down front, so I would sit in the balcony. It was not until Pastor David preached his series “Lifeblood” addressing the assurance of salvation and asked the final question, “Have the desires of your heart changed?” that, with tears streaming down my cheeks, I finally knew that I was a daughter of the Most High King.
Home is where the challenges of living out my faith began. Even though I found it a little scary submitting to challenges of diving deeper into God’s Word and really getting to know the God we call Abba Father, it’s okay because I accepted these challenges with a multitude of friends. As my faith grew, my challenges grew; I found myself leading 5th grade girls, then leading as children’s director in urban Birmingham, and ultimately an ocean away serving mid-term in West Africa.
Over months and years, my faith continued to grow deeper, and the challenges become bigger and bigger. I adamantly remember stating as a young adult, “you could pay me a million dollars a day, and I would never be a teacher. It is the most underappreciated profession from all angles, by administration, (state and federal), by students, parents, and everybody and anybody.” After several days (weeks) of rebellion and trying my best to convince God that He was not calling me to teach, He revealed Proverbs 16:9: “The heart of man plans his way, but the LORD establishes his steps.” It was then I realized my reluctance to trust His will for my life, so with a remorseful and repentant heart, I immediately began to seek out how to become an educator (in what, I had no idea). However, once submission was reached everything became crystal clear, from subject matter, to finances. (Amazing… huh? You reckon He has this whole thing rigged?)
Now, I’m approaching the finish line and yet another challenge, but this time it’s not from David Platt. It’s the voice of God telling me to pick up and move away from everything and everyone I feel comfortable with. It’s one thing to go mid-term and be gone for a couple of months, but it’s completely different to pick up and move away from home. The Church at Brook Hills is:
…where I learned who God is.
…where I learned to pray and worship.
…where I healed from divorce.
…where I learned to forgive and love unconditionally.
…where I learned grief can be somewhat tolerable.
…where I learned to serve and to lead.
Why would He want me to leave this place? Like all children, we grow up and leave home, and it’s time. Resting in the knowledge that God is with me, I’m going to be strong and courageous as I head to the University of North Alabama in Florence to finish my last year and half of school. If I push through hard, I will have my undergrad in Secondary Education/English Language Arts and a masters in ESL to be used for His Glory.
Only by God’s grace, I have achieved 96 credit hours towards a 120 hour degree and maintained a 3.8 GPA and been accepted in Pi Theta Kappa and Who’s Who among American College Students for academic success. My daily prayer is that God would use this degree to bring glory to Himself. This degree is completely for His name, and I pray that He will send me somewhere – anywhere – to share and show His great love just as others have shared and shown me His sacrificial love. (Isaiah 6:8 – “Here am I! Send me!”)
However, near or far, east or west, The Church at Brook Hills will always be my home. My launching pad to the nations. Thank you for challenging me to answer the call.
I will never be able to express my gratitude to the body of believers who embraced and encouraged me over the past seven years. I was a new believer and had never been a member of a church before. However, I do know that I would not be where I am today without your answering the call to share, show, serve, and teach new members in the body of Christ. Thanks to your obedience I have a solid foundation to love and serve others because you first loved and served me. (tears…). Thank you, Church, thank you!
- My uncle whom I will be living with is not a believer in Christ. He does not believe in heaven or hell. He thinks God has just left us here to take care of ourselves. I pray that God will use this time to reveal Himself to my uncle and that God would give me words and boldness to confess His truths. I am intimidated by my uncle’s intellect.
- Pray for a connection to a local body of believers investing in the community and a desire to take the gospel to the nations.
- Being a non-traditional student, pray for connection with the student body at UNA to be involved in student activities and boldness to share.
- Pray for continual academic achievement and the potential to participate in the study abroad program.
“For nothing will be impossible with God.” (Luke 1:37)
Wal-mart. For some of you, that word causes a cold chill. For others, repressed memories of children throwing a tantrum in the buggy because you’re being a good parent and not letting them have the candy that is, oh so conveniently, placed in the check-out line begin to arise. Some of you, like my father, avoid this place like the plague. But I grew up with a mom who loves this store (and who goes, no joke, several times a week) and who can talk to anyone about anything, especially Jesus.
I had one of those moments yesterday where I felt like I was turning into my mother. I was at Wal-mart, began talking to this lady in the check-out line (it can happen if we only put down our smart phones), and the conversation turned to God (gulp!). But the convo took a direction I did not expect when the lady told me she’s a feminist and disagrees with Paul’s statements about women (especially in 1 Corinthians). In the moment, I chose not to follow up on that part her statement and try to keep focused on the gospel, for I did not see a way for it to end well if I pursued the feminism and women in ministry topic, especially in the limited amount of time it takes to scan, bag, and pay for my stuff. But our reading for this week in 1 Timothy actually addresses this subject, so for those of you who have questions about the reading (or about what the Bible says about women in ministry), here’s some commentary to assist you.
1 Timothy 2:8-15; 3:1-13
One question that usually comes up in relation to these two passages has to do with the role of women in ministry. Can women serve as deacons or elders? Both 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 strictly refer to men as the ones who fulfill the role of elder/overseer/pastor, and there are no loopholes for this to be interpreted differently in the Greek text. With regards to deacons, 1 Timothy 3:11 is debated as to whether or not the word refers to a deacon’s wife or to a deaconess since the Greek word used here can refer to either a woman or a wife and since the word “their” is not included in the Greek.
The whole discussion of women in ministry can easily lead to frustration and to arguments among believers, especially when considering how 1 Timothy 2:8-15 fits into the discussion. A key factor to remember is that God is not sidelining women. He gives men and women different roles, but they are equal in their value to Him. The Spirit gives gifts – including the gift of teaching and of leadership – to men and to women, but that does not necessarily mean that they utilize such gifts in the same roles. However, both men and women are called to participate in the Great Commission, which involves among other things “teaching them to obey all that I have commanded you” (Matt. 28:19). In his sermon “What About Women, Paul?”, David Platt states:
“With submission to elders, women are free to lead in a variety of different positions. Women are intended by God to thrive in ministry across the church. You look throughout the New Testament, and you see women prophesying, praying, helping, serving, equipping, teaching, and spreading the gospel. One writer said, ‘The fields of opportunity are endless for the entire church to be mobilized in ministry, male and female.’ Nobody is to be at home watching soaps and reruns while the world burns.”
When coming to passages in Scripture such as 1 Timothy 2:8-15, it is vital to read them in light of the surrounding context, the entire book, and the entire Bible in order to grasp what the Bible teaches on the subject. We also have to recognize our own bias about an issue – such as the issue of women in ministry – and submit our own feelings, opinions, and bias to the Word and its Author. With this in mind, we know that the church in Ephesus faced false teachers and false doctrine at the time because it is part of why Paul wrote this epistle (1:3-7), and since prohibitions in Scripture always have an accompanying purpose, we can learn about what was likely occurring in the church by what commands Paul includes in this letter. For example, his instructions regarding the women’s wardrobe and hair informs us that the church women were likely being ostentatious in a way that flaunted their wealth as well as focusing more time on their external appearance than on the cultivation of a godly character (2:8-9). Paul is not saying that a girl can’t wear her pearls.
Paul desires that women learn the truth. In fact, “learn” is the only command in 1 Timothy 2:11-12, and the fact that Paul advocated the religious education of women was a huge deal culturally. 1 Timothy 2:11-12 contains an inclusio or bookends with the words “quiet” and “quietly”:
“Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness.
I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man;
rather, she is to remain quiet.”
By doing this, Paul emphasizes what is in the middle of the bookends, which is how he is defining quietness: not teaching or exercising authority over a man. Paul is not stating that women must refrain from speaking, for women can pray, prophesy, and speak in tongues in church (see 1 Cor. 11-14). His point is that women cannot teach or exercise authority over men, and these are the two qualities that distinguish elders from all other roles in the church. In his commentary Pastoral Epistles, William Mounce also states, “Whatever…’quietness,’ means, it must be understood against the backdrop of the situation of the Ephesian women…Some of the women are characterized as learning to be idlers, gadding about from house to house, gossiping (or talking foolishly), and in general being busybodies (1 Tim. 5:13). They were anything but quiet. Evidently the lack of constraint…was a problem at Ephesus.”
Paul’s reasons for these commands are rooted in creation order and the fact that God created Adam first (2:13). This is important because of the role of primogeniture that was understood culturally by the people in Bible times. This meant that the firstborn son ranked highest in the family after the father and served as a representative of all other family members. As the firstborn of all creation (see Rom. 5), Adam was held responsible even though Eve sinned first (Gen. 3:1-7). When God created Adam and Eve, He made the servant leader first then the woman, the helpmeet, and God desires for the order of creation to be reflected in the order or design of the church’s leadership.
Paul also points out that creation order was violated in the Fall (1 Tim. 2:14; Gen. 3). Paul is not saying that women are easily duped or that a lack of street smarts in the Garden prevents a woman from leading in the church. In his commentary on the Pastoral Epistles, R. Kent Hughes explains:
“We miss the point of verse 14 entirely if we think that Eve was more gullible than Adam, and that is why she ‘was deceived and became a sinner.’ Eve’s sin was not naiveté but a willful attempt to overthrow the creation order. She hoped, in eating from the tree, that her eyes would be opened and she would be like God (cf. Genesis 3:5).
Here is the irony: God had given Adam and Eve awesome authority…But due to her rebellion, a creature (part of creation), a snake, began to rule her because she obeyed it. Then Eve exercised woeful authority over her husband by leading him to do the same thing. And Adam? It appears from Genesis 3:6 that Adam was with Eve when she partook but did nothing, then ‘listened to [his] wife and ate from the tree’ (cf. Genesis 3:17). As Phillip Jensen explains: ‘Eve’s sin involved overturning the order of creation and teaching her husband. Similarly, Adam’s sin came from ‘listening’ to his wife, in the sense of heeding and following her instruction. He was taught by her, thereby putting himself under her authority and reversing God’s good ordering of creation.’”
Because it will likely come up, scholars disagree about the meaning of 1 Timothy 2:15’s reference about women being saved through childbearing. What it does not mean is that our salvation relates to our ability to give birth. Procreation does not give a woman eternal salvation. It also does not mean that women will be kept physically safe when bearing children. Likely, the reference has something either to do with women being saved from their sin through the offspring of a woman (Jesus) or with emphasizing an important role that only women are capable of doing – bearing children. Whatever the meaning of this phrase, Paul’s focus in this passage is to instruct women on how to conduct themselves as members of the body, as witnesses in society, and as daughters of the King (2:8-12).
Today’s post was written by Brook Hills member and Small Group Leader, Kristi Kirkland.
I feel tired. I feel hungry. I feel irritated. I feel hurt. I feel frustrated. I feel happy. I feel fine. I feel loved.
Feel, feel, feel. We all feel something. In fact, we probably feel multiple things at the same time. And who among us hasn’t given into our feelings at times and allowed them to overtake every area of life?
If we are going to get anywhere with our feelings, we have to accept what feelings are: a gauge for where we are at with people or situations. Right or wrong. I am mad at my coworker, spouse, parent, friend. I am frustrated at myself for not following through on a commitment. I am happy that I finally completed a big project at work. Feelings reveal our emotional state in regards to life’s circumstances.
Accept that feelings are what they are…a little acknowledgement in this area can go a long way.
And remember that feelings can change in an instant. They are not reliable because life is constantly changing, and as it changes, our feelings about situations and circumstances will naturally change. Feelings are fickle.
But we have to examine our feelings and understand why we are feeling what we are feeling. We cannot move forward until we acknowledge where we are emotionally. We need to process it and accept that we are hurt, frustrated, angry, etc.
But then we have to realize that feelings are not a compass or a road map for life. They certainly let us know where we are, but they cannot guide us to where we want to be. What emotional messes we would be if we allowed feelings to dictate our choices in life.
Society will tell us the opposite. Every romantic movie and love song on the radio revolves around people listening to and following the impulse of their feelings, and of course, it always turns out perfectly. Our self-centered culture constantly screams at us: “Go with your gut!” or “Listen to your heart!” or “Let love be your guide!” Hmmm…what if my heart is in pain, and really wants to hurt someone who has inflicted deep emotional pain in my life? Should I listen to my heart then? And what if my gut tells me to take what is not mine because, in that moment, I really want it and need it and, after all, I deserve it? What if “love” tells me to compromise because after all “we are in love”?
Guts, hearts, and feelings – they are real, they are powerful, and they have an opinion. But they are not trustworthy.
The reality is that every day we do things we don’t feel like doing. And this is a really good thing. Every morning I feel like staying in bed. But every morning I get up because I know that though I may feel like staying in bed, I have a job to do and people who are depending on me to follow through. So I ignore those feelings, and I get out of bed. I don’t “listen to my heart” or “go with my gut.”
This is certainly one of those “easier-said-than-done” things. We are barraged with feelings all the time, and they can easily influence our thoughts and our choices. The point is not to will away our feelings-we will never succeed at that. Feelings are unpredictable. But their effect on us doesn’t have to be unpredictable. Regardless of how we feel about something, we have the ability to do what’s right and counteract those feelings.
We have to accept that we feel what we feel. If we pretend like we don’t feel anything, that will only make us disillusioned and miserable people. Instead we can take the high road, acknowledge what we feel and why, and then press on to do what we know is right, even if we don’t feel like it. Feelings will fail us every time we depend on them to provide guidance they cannot give.
Today’s post was written by Brook Hills member Jenny Clark. Jenny is mom to Aidan (10), Ella Mae (7), and Jojo (15 months), as well as a foster mom. She leads a single moms small group here at Brook Hills. You can learn more about Jenny on one of her blogs: momsyndrome.com and jennymo.com.
The journey that led me to adopt my son, Jojo, in June of 2013 actually began with foster care. Not long after I brought Jojo home from Texas, I felt the Lord nudging me to finish my foster care licensing….just in case.
Almost exactly a year after Jojo was born, I felt like the time was right to get my license and be ready just in case a baby like Jojo ever needed a family. Jojo has Down syndrome, and babies with special needs are often abandoned at the hospital, and it is hard to find foster families who are able take them. I wanted to be available to take the hard-to-place kids with special needs…..but not to be a “normal foster parent” and take in “typical kids.”
I turned in the final piece of paperwork on a Friday in July, assuming that I would sit back and wait until I was needed. I sat back and waited …..until Monday when I got the call for Baby Zee!
A statewide email had gone out (meaning the county the baby came from could find no one to take him) about a six month old baby who was born with Down syndrome but who also had a “whole host of other medical issues.” My social worker immediately thought of me. The list of his needs was overwhelming as I talked to her on the phone and tried to scribble down as many of his diagnosis as I could (on a trach, floppy airway, hearing issues, problem with his spleen, complicated heart defect, terrible diaper rash – those are the ones I can pronounce), so I could figure out what they actually meant later. But I knew then that the sick child she was describing over the phone was very different from the real child in real life. I said I needed to meet him.
As I held him for the first time, he was no longer a list of medical conditions. He was no longer a diagnosis. He was a beautiful child of God in need of someone who could care for him when his family could not. I told the room full of social workers, doctors, and nurses that I was in. I was on board to do whatever necessary to bond with this sweet boy and do the training required to bring him home.
In the meantime, I got a call from DHR about two other kids, ages 5 and 9 who needed a safe place to stay just for a week. Knowing that Baby Zee wouldn’t be able to come home that soon, I said yes. Of course. I can do anything for a week! That was over two months ago, and they are still with us!
About a month after meeting “Baby Zee,” I got a phone call that he wasn’t doing well and had actually coded. I rushed to the hospital to find out that he would need heart surgery within the next couple of weeks in order to survive.
In order for me to be able to be at the hospital with Baby Zee for a couple of days, I had to have a whole army of people to step in and take care of my 3 kids plus our 2 foster friends. This was no small task. That is where I was introduced to the Brook Hill’s WRAP ministry! Hallelujah!
Multiple people called and prayed with me. I received encouragement from people I had never met. Not to mention….FOOD! A sweet lady came to my house with 5 freezer meals, 1 ready to eat meal, cupcakes, AND breakfast stuff! You just can’t even fathom how much pressure that took off of me to be able to focus on the baby and his surgery without having to be home at a certain time to make sure dinner was ready.
God doesn’t call us all to adopt or foster, but He does command us all to care for the orphan. This is a wonderful ministry and an amazing way to be the hands and feet of Jesus to people who so desperately need your support!
Our first Substitute Caregiver Training will be Saturday, October 25, from 8:30am-noon at the Brook Hills in Modulars 1, 14, 15, 16, & 17. Click here for more information and to register.
If you would like to find out more about WRAP please contact one of the following WRAP Team members:
Team Leader – Jeannette Thompson email@example.com
W and P Coordinator – Kathy Bley firstname.lastname@example.org
R Coordinator – Susan Nolin email@example.com
A Coordinator – Caroline Campbell firstname.lastname@example.org
Today’s post was written by Brook Hills member Susan Nolin. Susan is wife to Denver and mom to Kathleen, Sara, and Heather. She and Denver have fostered, adopted, and serve on the WRAP ministry leadership team as Relief Coordinators.
I am a WRAPer! Do I recite poetry to a beat and call it singing a song? Heavens no, my kids would faint if I did that … in public. WRAP is a foster care support ministry at Brook Hills. It originated in concept about 5 years ago as a way to answer the call to care for those caring for the fatherless. This ministry started with a small group of us brainstorming ways we could help foster families. Over the years, we have come to realize that our original process had become more reactive instead of proactive. We depended on foster families asking for help. If you know any of our church’s foster families, you will know that asking for help is not in their DNA. So we needed to organize, prepare, and have a support system in place that covered their needs before they asked. This is why WRAP was implemented. WRAP provides the much needed intentional support to our families who are fostering kids.
WRAP is an acronym for:
W – Wrestle in Prayer. WRAPers are prayer warriors who have a heart for the hurting and who know who can help with that hurt. I mean they have a red phone hot line that rings directly to Heaven! They take the needs of these families and intentionally intercede on their behalf. They respect the stories of the families and foster kids and are able to talk to the Lord about those needs, but not their neighbors and friends.
Supplies needed to serve as a “W”: Bible, knee pads, and a “confidential stamp” on their lips.
R – Relief Care. WRAPers are babysitters on steroids. These men and women love love love kids. They play ball, throw a Frisbee, burp and rock babies, teach teens to cook brownies, kiss boo boos, car pool…. they give TIME. In doing this, they give a much needed break to the foster families. It can give foster parents alone time for a date night or alone time with their biological kids to remind these kiddos how fantastic they are, or alone time with just the foster kids to show them some unconditional love, or just alone time to stare out the window in a quite house for an hour.
Supplies needed to serve as an “R”: Bible, a smile, 1 day of required training to know how to deal with the hurting child and meet state requirements, and about an hour or two every once in a while to play with kids.
A – Acts of Service. WRAPers are the hands and feet of Jesus. Have you ever cooked a meal for a neighbor, helped a kid with homework, carpooled some kids to baseball practice, or picked up a gallon of milk or dry cleaning for a friend? If so, you are very qualified to be an “A.” You know how to serve. These “A” folks can rally up volunteers and have lasagna, bread, salad, and a pecan pie on someone’s door step in a blink of an eye.
Supplies needed to serve as an “A”: Bible, hospitality, flash cards with the multiplication tables, and a supply of disposable dishes. Optional: 1 day of required training as listed above – if you want to transport kids to appointments or practice.
P – Promises of God. Hallelujah! Did you read that? “PROMISES OF GOD!” He has commanded us to care for the fatherless; therefore, He has this thing rigged – right?!? BUT, when foster families are on the battlefield 24/7 fighting for these kids daily in their own house, it can be overwhelming. When loving little people who don’t necessarily know how to love them back, foster families can sink into a low place. Trusting that God is in control when they return a child (who has been in their home a day, a month, or years) back to their birth family – they might rejoice that the birth family has met their goals and grieve the loss of the child they have cared for, both at the same time. We as a church family are here to remind those foster families that what they are doing is so worth it! They need to hear from us, to be encouraged by us, to be reminded what our heavenly Father has to say. A WRAPer can send a card, make a phone call, or send an email – just to remind these families that they are not forgotten and are loved by us and by their Heavenly Father.
Supplies needed to serve as a “P” – Bible, a stash of stationary, unlimited minutes, and a rewards card at Hallmark.
I am a WRAPer – and you can be one too!
Our first Substitute Caregiver Training that is mentioned above will be Saturday, October 25, 8:30am-noon in Modulars 1, 14, 15, 16, & 17 at Brook Hills.
Click here for more information and to register.
If you would like to find out more about WRAP, please contact one of the following WRAP Team members:
Team Leader – Jeannette Thompson email@example.com
W & P Coordinator – Kathy Bley firstname.lastname@example.org
R Coordinator – Susan Nolin email@example.com
A Coordinator – Caroline Campbell firstname.lastname@example.org
Today’s post is taken from Sunday’s Worship Guide story and is written by John Tice, the Children’s Minister at Brook Hills.
No other season of the year provides such unusual opportunities as Halloween. Our neighbors will be outside roaming the streets in packs and walking right up to our homes! If that’s not unusual enough, they’ll be coming, bags opened, expecting tasty treats. What do we do with that? Do we disappoint? Turn the lights off and go to bed? Hide in the basement? Or, do we turn the lights on and seize the opportunity? The latter seems best to me, and it’s consistent with what Jesus said:
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matt. 5:14-16).
The Holy Spirit wrote, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil by good” (Rom. 12:21) and “make the best use of the time, because the days are evil” (Eph. 5:16). The traditional themes and activities of Halloween provide unusual opportunities to “make the best use of the time” and to “overcome evil with good.”
This year, when your neighbors show up for tasty treats, let’s not disappoint. Instead, let’s be exceptional. Rock the Block Fall is a fun, low-prep effort for Brook Hills’ families and small groups to seize the opportunity and to be exceptional right where we live, in our own neighborhoods.
A Rock the Block Fall kiosk is set up in the lobby just outside the main worship room at the church. Stop by to pick up a booklet complete with simple ideas for you, your family, or your small group to consider, download the booklet by clicking here, or visit this site for more information.
May God be pleased to bless and may He be glorified in our efforts this October.
Yesterday, our Global Disciple-Making Team at Brook Hills released the list of 2015 short-term opportunities. Our church’s Vision, Mission, and Goal states that “we glorify God by making disciples of all nations,” and we encourage our members to set aside 2% of their time each year (about 1 week) to go on a short-term mission trip in order to share the gospel, to invest in national disciple-makers and churches in other contexts, and to transform how we spend the remaining 98% of our time here. We do this because we desire to multiply the gospel and bring greater praise and glory to God.
For a list of 2015 short-term trip opportunities, visit this site.
If your small group desires to go together on a trip, our Global Team will work with you to strategically customize a trip, and more about this can be found on the Short-Term website.
Those of you familiar with Brook Hills Music will know Mandi Mapes, who used to be on our worship team and whose music has played in movies such as October Baby, Mom’s Night Out, and Coffee Shop.
Mandi released her new EP He and She yesterday on iTunes, and this record features fun tracks about Mandi’s hometown of New Orleans, Birmingham, and her husband Bill.
Today’s post was written by Linda Hall who works as our Young Single Girls Coordinator at Brook Hills.
Community – what is that exactly some may ask? Webster and others define it as common interests, linked, social action, and interaction. When we think of biblical community, phrases like same Lord, loving each other, family, serving one another, praying together, and sharpening one another come to mind. Through the life and death of one of our young adult faith family members, I have witnessed first hand true biblical community.
Derick Arbaugh was tragically killed in a car accident back in July, and his Brook Hills “community” has served in ways that have been remarkable and humbling to see. As his out-of-state family came to Birmingham, many of our young single adults gathered around them, some of whom did not even know Derick’s family, and ministered to them in countless ways – sitting with them for hours on end at the hospital, crying with them, traveling to Virginia to attend the funeral, planning and hosting a Birmingham memorial service for family and friends, loving on and meeting the needs of Derick’s new wife of a few short weeks (they had gotten married in May), and numerous other ways – too many to list. Not only has it been an incredible blessing to watch, but it has also been a personal challenge to me to be more like them – part of a community that has exhibited Christ’s love and literally been His hands and feet to a hurting family.
I’m not sure if you’ve looked around lately, but we are a church that is blessed to have hundreds of young single adults. And I must say that they are quite an extensive group of believers who truly live out biblical community. They are young men and women who desire to learn from and live out their faith with each other as well as with others outside of their stage of life. As I have had the privilege to serve this demographic at Brook Hills, these young adults have had a huge impact on my life as I’ve watched them grow in Christ, commit to missions, lead others in our faith family, minister to the hurting, and on and on. Acts 2:43-47 has been carried out before me as I’ve witnessed up close and personal the lives of many of our young single adults. And two challenges come to mind because of my experience with them.
- If you are not in some way already connected to our young single adult ministry, may I challenge you to go out of your way to get to know and get involved with these awesome people? You will be blessed by having done so.
- Are YOU experiencing this kind of community personally? If not, take the necessary steps to get plugged into biblical community – join a small group, serve within our faith family, and serve locally and globally with fellow Brook Hills members. The opportunities are there; we just have to step up to the challenge to become involved in other people’s lives and to just maybe… get out of our comfort zone.
Derick’s life continues to touch people in our own faith family as well as many others. He was an organ donor, desiring that his organs be used to literally save the lives of those waiting for transplants. And people have come to faith in Christ and have re-committed their lives to His Lordship through this tragedy. I’m sure there are numerous other untold ways God has used this young man’s life and death and will continue to do so. But much of it started as Derick got involved in biblical community right here at Brook Hills.
So what about you? Will you step up to these challenges? I pray you will – and I’m confident that you’ll be thankful you did.